On the day you decided to get married, you probably believed your love would last forever. But as you start living together, things begin to change. The initial excitement fades, the sweetness lessens, and some days, you might feel indifferent or even exhausted by conflicts. You may start wonderinghas the love you once had disappeared?
The truth is, love hasnt vanished; it has simply transformed. What was once filled with surprises and romantic gestures has now evolved into deep connection and mutual care, like a family. Living together every day reveals sides of each other that were once unseenboth the beautiful and the challenging.
Some might feel that nothing is the same anymoreless romance, less thrill. But think about it: having someone waiting at home for you, sharing stories at the end of the day, or simply asking, Have you eaten? or How was your day?that is love in another form. It may not come with grand bouquets on Valentines Day, but it shows in the small, everyday moments. Its not in sweet morning texts, but in the hand thats always ready to hold yours.
If your love feels different, dont rush to conclude that its gone. Look at the little things you still do for each other daily. It may not be as dazzling as before, but its a love that has deepened over time. Keep nurturing itspend more quality time together, try new things, go on dates like you used to, or simply say "thank you" more often. Sometimes, going back to the simple gestures from the beginning can reignite the spark.
Because in the end, love after marriage doesnt endit just changes into something that requires more care, more time, and more effort than the day you first chose to walk this path together.